Hes asking friends family about me who im dating
However, to him it was simply like bringing a friend along to a gathering that happened to consist of more than a hundred of his family members.
On the ride home from the reunion that was four long hours, we began to talk about our future.
While I was sure he was secretly planning to confess his love for me and tell me why he allowed me to meet his family, somehow our conversation took another turn.
Instead, he told me that he wasn’t ready for a relationship and that he wants to take his time.
While it sounds extremely premature and reckless to me, I had to understand that everyone doesn’t value the same things in the same way.
What was a special event for me was a simple tag along for John. Now when someone invites me to meet the family, I usually decline unless we’re in a committed relationship, but if I happen to oblige, I don’t make any assumptions that just because I’m around the family, that means that I’ll eventually be a part of it.
He admitted that he’d had a few ‘friends’ around his family with no intention of making them his girl.Or he still considers you his girlfriend, but he's a jerk and doesn't deserve you.If a man treats you with respect and is honest in his dealings with you and the people around him then you will know he can be trusted.John* and I had been dating for about four months before he invited me to his family reunion.It would be my first time meeting his siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles all in one park that they’d reserved strictly for their annual gathering.